...oh, and the best part about your one-on-one slumber parties, there's no one around to tell you to shhsh! or go to bed!
12.28.2009
Slumber Party...for 2!
...oh, and the best part about your one-on-one slumber parties, there's no one around to tell you to shhsh! or go to bed!
12.25.2009
12.23.2009
The Romantic's Guide to Hot Cocoa
What's not romantic about hot cocoa? Just the very thought of cuddling up with my hubby on a cold winter day with a cup of hot cocoa is enough to make me wish for a winter storm to blow in that shuts everything down!
How About Orange posted a DIY tutorial for this clever cocoa dusting.
Martha Stewart tells her secret for making these cute heart-shaped marshmallows!

LollyChops provides the idea, recipe, and free downloads to make both of these hot cocoa packages! I especially like the first. I'd attach a tag that says, "You make me Hot! Hot! Hot!"
Kellie Fortin created these fun "Hot Cocoa for Two" cones...this could make a fun gift for any other couples you are friends with, too.
Personalization Mall offers some creative inspiration for the serious hot cocoa lover who would appreciate their own mug!Our Best Bites has the Ultimate Hot Chocolate recipe...with all sorts of possible variations (Mint, Peppermint, Hazelnut, Mexican Hot Chocolate....) Yum!
Don't think I've forgotten about those of you in a long-distance relationship! No matter the distance, hot cocoa can still bring you closer together this winter!

This would be a really light-weight item to ship to your hunny and no doubt it'd leave a warm spot in their heart for you!
Or, send a couple of individual cocoa packs along with a tag that says:

Ha.Ha.
If you want the kiddos to help you make a little surprise for mom or dad, this would be a fun and easy little project. (Of course...I'd write something cute on that mug...like any of the above sentiments)
(I found this by doing a google search...so I have no idea where it's from)
One of Love, Actually's readers submitted a link to her blog where she posted about a "Hot Chocolate Date" her and her hubby had just a while ago.
She writes, "After putting up our AWESOME tree we finished our night with a Hot Cocoa date. Jonathan found this HUGE mug. Even bigger than the soup mugs.. and he made a big cup of Hot Cocoa, we went and sat in front of our tree while sharing our GIANT cup of Hot Cocoa. Definitely a fun little date to share a warm cup this time of year. I would recommend it to anyone!"
I swear--I didn't tell her to post that! :) Thanks for sharing, Chelsea!
If you have any additions to my "Romantic's Guide to Hot Cocoa", please, do tell!
12.22.2009
Divine Diva Media Launch!
12.21.2009
Snowman Date: Just Add Snow!
Snowman Date.
Here it goes.

- Rocks (painted black if necessary) to resemble the Eyes, Buttons, and Mouth
- Scarf
- Hat (any kind will do)
- Pipe [if your snowman smokes, that is.. :) ]
- A carrot
- Put them all in a box with a bow on it (or wrapped)and inside have a note which says, "Just Add Snow"
and then just when your toes are about to fall off.... head inside for some hot cocoa!
*Want to spice it up?*
(recommended for use with no kids around...)
Build "Snow lovers" – If you have a secluded back yard, gather your lingerie and boxers to dress
Come on back on Wednesday for some romantic hot cocoa ideas to complete this date!!
12.20.2009
There's Still Time!!
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12.19.2009
Spa Night Customized Kit
for $7.99
- I will customize my Spa Brochure and Spa Bucks to include the name of "your" spa (rather than "La Cher").
- Custom color of Spa Bucks
- Custom $ amounts of Spa Bucks (up to 3 different dollar amounts)
- Custom wording changes to the brochure if desired. (you can add dollar amounts next to each package option as well)
I planned ahead so my husband would have something to look forward to. I planned the Spa Night for Friday, but on Monday, I started giving him these “spa bucks”—which hinted at what he could expect, but still left him in suspense. After he took out the trash, or fixed something in the house, killed a spider, or did the dishes---pretty much ANYTHING good, I would give him either a $5 or $10 spa buck coupon. So, he collected and he caught on quick! He figured the more bucks, the better… so he was scrubbing the house, SEARCHING for spiders, making me laugh, and finding anything possible that could be taken to the trash!

Then, on Friday…all of his collecting paid off. I presented him with the “La Cher Spa” Brochure, which included all the spa options that he could purchase with his spa bucks. {I think when it came down to it, I said to heck with counting and redeeming the spa bucks…he got the whole spa package!}
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12.16.2009
Christmas Lights Date
Wouldn't it be great if the presents bought themselves...and wrapped themselves, and Christmas dinner magically appeared on the table, and you just had time to cuddle up and watch the snow fall?
Even though there's much to be done around the holidays, reserve one night to go out for a romantic evening of christmas light viewing. Drive through local neighborhoods and pick out your favorite lighted houses. Take along some hot chocolate (or pick some up from the convenience store) and have holiday music playing in the car.
{editor's note: this is not my house, though it is lovely}I know this may not be some of your husbands favorite pick, but hey, sometimes they gotta give a little! I'll be dragging my husband along with me this year. :) How's that for romantic?
12.14.2009
Holiday Greetings
I have a feeling that anyone would get a kick out of receiving these each day as a countdown to Christmas... (however corny they may be)
- Can I have your picture? I need to show santa what I want for christmas!
- I must be a snowflake, cuz I've fallen for you.
- Shouldn't you be sitting on top of the tree, Angel?
- Even Santa doesn’t make candy as sweet as you.
- I can get you off the Naughty List.
- Those aren't sugarplums dancing through my head, it's all you.
There are way more (and many more on the dirtier side...) If you think your spouse would enjoy those better, by all means, check THESE out.
12.11.2009
Date of the Month Club: Homemade Christmas Gift
You can present this to him anyway you'd like. In a binder with plastic sleeves, in a box, in a folder, or in a 12x12 scrapbook pocket page like I did.
{ A closer look }

Monthly Date Calendar:
Give your hubby a list of 12+ dates on a card or a full size page (depending on how you are presenting it). The more he can choose from, the better. Keep in mind, these don't all have to be fancy dates from my blog. Guys like simple dates, too...like, throwing a frisbee at the park. Put some of his interests in there as dates with you. Then, provide him another sheet which has each month of the next year listed. He will choose which date he wants for which month. Then, it's up to you keep that card and plan those dates each month (Hence, "date of the month club").
Romance Reward Tickets:
These are "love coupons" of sorts...the trick is actually honoring them when he/she decides to use them throughout the year--no backing out! And, make sure you really personalize them.
Here are the tickets I used:
(I put two of each in the package)
- Breakfast in Bed - hot & ready, or however you like it!
- Mental Health Day - Need a break from the daily grind? Play hookie and we'll have some real fun...anything you want to do!
- Sick Day - Redeem this for some pure pampering on a day you aren't feeling too hot... I'll make you feel better.
- Treat Ticket - Your craving is my command!
- Massage of Your Choice - Where does it hurt? Let me rub it better.
Vacation Packages for Two:
Give him at least 2 options…but only give him as many as you can handle having to plan throughout the year! (make sure he knows these are not REAL getaways...otherwise what’s the need for a homemade Christmas?)
My package included a trip to Las Vegas and one to a romantic bed and breakfast suite--he gets to choose the suite theme.
Hershey Hugs & Kisses:
Redeemable for the real thing....(prepare to receive these after he/she has just made you mad)
Once it's all set, wrap it up and put it under the tree!
Don't have the time to design? Don't have the cute fonts I've used?
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Vacation Packages - wording, related image, border color, (2 customizable packages included) $1 each additional
Calendar - 2 different files: date option list is fully customizable, background color, text color
Title - (text color, striped paper design not included)
All of these items will be saved as a JPEG file (available to you by email or download) so you can insert them into Word, Publisher, etc. and make them any size you want. Then, you can print right from your own computer.
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*If you'd like anything in addition to this package created digitally, let me know and I will quote you a price.
{Credit: For my "romance reward tickets", I used the Tiny Tickets design by Gunhild Storeide}
12.10.2009
Love Life Gone Sour?? Rekindle Your Friendship! (Guest Blogger - Mariel "Or so she says...")
Hello, Love Actually readers! What a fun blog this is! So fun, in fact that the readers of "Or so she says..." keep telling me about it! Of course, I had to check it out and now I'm a fan too! My name is Mariel, by the way. I am the co-author of "Or so she says...," a blog I write with my cousin, Jessica. It's a fun blog, updated every single day with a new idea for women! We do posts on relationships, parenting, recipes, fashion, health, holidays, you name it! And we always let women, just like you, share their ideas too! You can find us at www.oneshetwoshe.com, come on by! We would love to have you! We actually have a massive giveaway going on right now too, with 14 adorable shops giving away prizes...all you have to do to enter is leave a comment!
So, today I thought I would stick to the "love" and "relationships" theme of this blog and share one of our previous posts...
You begin to organize the 3 foot stack of papers on the kitchen counter....throw some out, file others, hang some on the fridge, etc. Meanwhile, a little rascal spills orange juice on the floor then slips in it and cries. Another kid is begging for you to take him to his friends house. You lose your organizing focus and realize you have been eating half the pan of brownies that was left out. You wish for a second that you were bulimic but instead decide you are done eating for the rest of the day...except for green beans.
Please say this sounds familiar. Not that it does to me...at all. I'm just totally creative, that's all...I would never be happy to get "off the hook" with my husband. I mean, seriously. How rude would that be? Besides, I'm horny all the time. It's out of control. Oh, and what luck! I found a picture that reminds me so much of us! See below...
Feeling like we are "close" (I talking EMOTIONALLY here) and truly friends with each other is what I need to bring about romance. So, that's what I like to work on. Because, let's face it...sometimes we just have to be in charge of our own happiness. If we sit around all day waiting for a man to read our mind, we would lose all circulation in our butts and who knows what happens after that! I like to bring about situations that allow us time to be alone, time to have fun, and time to talk:
1. Go for a walk together every night, alone.
5. Get in to a reality show or series together. We love to watch...well, lots of stuff...Survivor, The Bachelor, 24, etc. We love getting the kids to bed, cuddling up and being excited about our shows. It adds some drama to our pretty normal lives.
12.07.2009
Jingle Mingle: Blog Swap
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What is a Jingle Mingle?
Well… that could be up for interpretation. Usually it is a party hosted by one couple for a few other couples to celebrate the Holiday season. Sometimes it means a sit down dinner, but usually it is more of an after-dinner get-together with appetizers and drinks. As the wanna-be dinner party guru that I am, it has to be something fun and festive with lots of atmosphere! For this blog swap, I have created 3 variations of a Jingle Mingle (and included 3 different invites that you can download, print and send out!!!). Also included are printable accessories to make your table look great!
For this party you first need to decide which invitation to send out.
Invite #1- an invitation for a ‘Jingle Mingle- A dinner with friends’
Invite #2- an invitation for a ‘Jingle Mingle- Appetizer Bar, games and gift exchange’
Invite #3- an invitation for a ‘Jingle Mingle- Christmas Cookie Exchange… Please bring ____ dozen cookies to exchange’ (and if you want to be traditional you can do this as a girls night, but this blog is all about including our men so… try it with the husbands)

Décor: It’s Christmas time so you should have your house already decked out for the holidays. Very little extra is needed. For a dinner use linen tablecloths and napkins, or at least attractive holiday patterned paper (not plastic) tablecloths. On the buffet put some garlands or poinsettias or those extra decorations that you have in storage. Burn a Christmas candle and play some soft instrumental or easy listening Christmas music. For the Cookie Exchange go a little more casual and crank up the Christmas music!!!!
RSVP: Make a quick call to those that you haven’t heard from to verify if they are coming. In our culture RSVP seems to be optional to many (Having a guest count is crucial to party planning.) Tell them that you are wanting to make sure to have enough of everything. Too many desserts and only one main dish could be very bad! I know because that happened to me at one of my first parties.
Gift Exchange: Make sure that you write on the invite that each person (or couple) needs to bring a gift valued at $5 or $10. Have a couple extras on hand for the person that will forget.
Cookie Exchange: This can be a lot of fun with couples! I have had 12 couples attend with each bringing 5 dozen. We just did quick math to figure out that each couple’s plate would get 4 of each variety with one dozen left on the bar after the exchange for all couples to dig into and sample and drink yummy Wassail or Red Christmas punch. Because December is a busy month only 70-80% of those you invite to come may be able to come, so invite a few extra so that you get the number of couples you want to come. As the host you provide the drinks and the trays for the couples to take the cookies home on. One thought- Since most of the guests (the women) will have been baking that day they may be in the mood for appetizers, rather than more sweets. Instead of eating cookies at the party you could have an appetizer bar with drinks. Some inexpensive appetizers include- Bruschetta, Bacon wrapped waterchestnuts, chips and dip, veggie tray, pizza or bagel bites, and soup in a crockpot. If you don’t want to provide all of them be sure and make a note on the bottom of the invite that they need to also bring an appetizer to share.
Games: See below-
My Craziest/Worst Present Ever- Have guests write the craziest/worst present they ever received on a piece of paper. Don’t share with others what you are writing (not even your husband). Turn them in to the host who will then read them aloud and have all guests guess aloud who they think each present belonged to. This always ends up causing lots of laughs and some fun embarrassment. If there isn’t a lot of time have each person take a turn telling everyone what that gift was. (example- A magazine subscription to Weight Watchers from my mother-in-law)
Family Traditions Truth and Lies- Like the game 2 truths and a lie. Have everyone tell EITHER 2 real traditions and 1 fake tradition and have them guess which tradition is a phony….. or 2 fakes and 1 REAL tradition and have them guess the REAL one. Guests can either write them down on a paper putting their name on the paper to be read aloud… or go around in a circle and let each couple share them on their own trying to disguise the answer. This can be a riot and so tricky!!!
Example- If we were playing the 2 Real Traditions and 1 Fake Tradition version… I would write:
1. We wake up to open presents every year before the sun rises.
2. We give our kids a gift that starts with the first letter of their name to open on Christmas Eve.
3. We don’t have stockings, we set out shoes instead for Santa to fill. It’s a Mexican tradition.
The fake tradition is #2
If I Were A Christmas Cookie- Let each person take a turn telling everyone which type of Christmas cookie they would be and WHY! Or which cookie they think their spouse would be and why! (this would be especially fun at the Cookie Exchange party) Example- My husband would be a Mexican Wedding Cookie because he is the palest guy I know with a cute round gut, a little bit nutty…. But so sweet.
Christmas Memories- This isn’t really a game, but is a more organized way to encourage conversation. Each person takes a turn sharing a favorite funny Christmas memory.
For the menu download print it onto 5x7 photo paper (use a Sharpie to write menu on it as it is glossy) or print onto cardstock. Place it next to each placesetting for guests... or lay it across each plate.
For the placecard it works really well if you download the design and then upload it to Costco or Walmart.com and have printed as wallets. The size is perfect as a wallet and the quality is exceptional. Use a Sharpie to write each guests name on it. You could stand it up next to their water glass, or using a pop dot you can attach to an ornament and have next to guests plates.
Party Favor Idea: The recipe cards on Maggie's Blog can be used for the cookie exchange as a party favor. You can make a recipe book by downloading the recipe cards and printing on matte paper, punch two holes on the left side and make a booklet with ribbon or small metal rings. You could also use the recipe cards as a way to label the different appetizers or cookies. Print off the cards below as wallets. Attach them to kabob sticks, toothpicks, coffee stirrers or whatever you can find. Have guests write the name of their dish on the recipe card with a short description, if necessary and stick into the appetizer or dish. There are lots of other cute recipes cards like this one on Maggie's Blog.
Go check out Maggie's original post to grab all the fun, free downloads!
12.03.2009
Choconopoly Winner!
Thank you to everyone who participated and posted my button...and thanks for following!
And, hey--I need a little help with ideas for stocking stuffers for my hubby this year? Anybody have any great ideas from past years or what you're planning this year? (my husband will appreciate your input...)
Homemade Christmas: Family Games
This homemade game is basically a combination of Monopoly, Sorry and Trivial Pursuit. She got the idea from this tutorial on Family Fun.****
Another great homemade family game is Family Yahtzee by Stacey (who we dearly miss in the blogging world) of The Thrifty Chick
The best part about these...they can be played again and again!
They could also easily be adapted for Valentine's Day, a wedding anniversary, or a birthday gift...just in case you don't have time to complete this project before Christmas.
Coming up next week... more Christmas ideas for you!



